When coaching someone I will often come across a situation where someone is uncomfortable in confronting someone. Not “all across the bar in someone’s face Eastenders” style, but how to get to the bottom of things like: Why have they not replied? Why have they cancelled their order? How dare they say that about me,…
I’m constantly inundated with messages from people who have read my latest book “Fight the Fear – how to beat your negative mindset and win in life” to tell me that this book has changed their lives. That is a real honor. I love that Chapter 1 tends to throw a curve ball as you…
I’m honoured to speak for anyone that asks me and will always deliver something unique to that audience. Even if it is a subject I’ve covered a thousands times I will always write something fresh for that audience. And only in that audience will be those delegates so you are guaranteed every event has its…
I’m lucky enough to get in the press and on the radio quite often and recently I helped BBC Suffolk Radio with their “Hands off” campaign helping BBC Suffolk raise the profile of their campaign to get more of us to put the phone down when we get behind the wheel of the car. So…
Recently I was interviewed by best selling international author and speaker Gordon Tredgold. He asked to interview me because he had read my book and wanted more insights into the ideas and how I came up with them. (Especially since as Gordon mentions in the interview he got half way through “Fight the Fear –…
When I wrote a chapter in my book about the biggest fears that impact on success, the one chapter that my publishers were not sure that was right for the book, was this one. “Is it really that big a fear?” they asked. And that fear, is the fear to take time off. And I…
There are times in our lives when we feel like we can’t do it. Panic sets in. Fears escalates. Confidence takes a nose dive and we question our actions, our thoughts and even ourselves. When you feel that level of overwhelm it can be hard to know how to go on. “I’m not good enough”…
One of the things that clients often present to me is this illusion that “there isn’t any time to do anything else!” Remember someone far cleverer than me said that “time is an illusion”? Actually it was Douglas Adams in the Hitchhikers guide and he added to that quote “Lunchtime doubly so” but is that…
Okay so I’m no expert on this, however since setting up my business many years ago I’ve come to the national attention of the right people and organisations (even the Home Office and most national newspapers!) in what I wanted to achieve. And so since its been asked (a lot!) in the last few months,…
Here I speak with Charlotte Civil from The Enquirer about my book, how it works with the extensive experiences I’ve had with clients over many years and how this is not a self help book this is a results book. “Mind over matter, this is what this book is about,” explains Mandie Holgate. “Having the right attitude…